Right now, you might be thinking, “Isn’t it un-spiritual to label (in your mind) another person as a drama queen or king?” Here’s my answer: No! It is not un-spiritual to admit to yourself that the person driving you nuts is unwell and decide to take better care of yourself! Recognizing your truth and healing yourself is the very essence of spiritual work. Friend, hear me when I say that being spiritual doesn’t mean you must be a doormat. Life on Earth is tough enough already!
Observe your emotions. What person or situation continually brings you down? You can stop drama queens and kings from robbing you of your inner peace. Life without unnecessary drama is possible! You must love yourself enough to let go, as much as you can physically, mentally, and emotionally.
Decide that you will compassionately detach from the outcome of their words and behavior. Be conscious of your emotional and bodily reactions to chaos makers and keep yourself in check. This requires some work on your part. But the pay off for your efforts will be freedom!
When your emotions or body begins to register anxiety, take a walk outdoors if possible. Find a quiet place even if it’s in your car. I can’t count how many times I have done readings for people whose only privacy was found by sitting in their cars.
Take three deep breaths and then use this mantra or something similar: I am peace. I am love. I am protected. Now you are more centered.
Next cord cutting may be needed. And you don’t need to make an appointment with an energy healer. You can do this yourself! First, please understand what I mean by the word “cord.” Every time you react to a chaos maker, you send him or her a part of your energy. Over time, that energy forms into a cord connecting both of you together.
An energy cord can often be seen by clairvoyants and sensed by clairsentients (and I am both). It looks like a beam of light in your aura but not a pleasant light. Its presence means that the perpetrator is draining your energy. They are not necessarily trying to drain you; they are just being their twisted selves. And if the situation has been going on for some time, you can safely assume that a cord cutting is a good idea!
To cut the cord, visualize or imagine your guardian angel or if you prefer, Archangel Michael, coming to you holding a sword and shield. Ask this wonderful, powerful angel to first cut the cord from you, and then cut the cord from them. Next, ask for the cord to be burned in violet flame. Don’t worry; your angel will shield you from the flame. In your mind’s eye, visualize the cord burning down into simple ashes that fall to Mother Earth, or Gaia. Once the ashes fall to Gaia, she will neutralize them and recycle the energy, so that it becomes positive white light absorbed back into the universe.
Susanne Wilson The Carefree Medium is a scientifically authenticated medium, author, and spiritual teacher based in Carefree, Arizona.